Sometimes, when someone’s been living in your head rent-free, you want a little extra help from the universe. Maybe it’s a crush you can’t stop thinking about. Maybe it’s an ex you still feel connected to. Or maybe it’s that one person you locked eyes with, and ever since, there’s been this strange, lingering energy. You wonder—are they thinking of you, too? Do they feel the pull?
Dream magic has been used for centuries to send little whispers into the night. It’s gentle but powerful. These kinds of spells don’t control or manipulate; they simply open a door between your energy and theirs, especially when their mind is most open—during sleep. When done with intention and care, these spells can stir feelings, spark connection, and leave someone waking up with a sense that they need to see you again.
Dreams are more than just random images; they’re little messages, memories, longings, and signs. When you pop up in someone’s dream, it plants a seed. They may not even know why they suddenly feel drawn to you, but they will. Their soul will feel it. Dream spells are perfect for this kind of soft, spiritual attraction work.
So, if you’re ready to play in the space between dreams and desire—this is your guide. Below are a few simple but powerful spells to help you gently slide into their dreams and leave them waking up with you on their mind (and heart).
Spells to Make Them Dream About You (And Wake Up Wanting You)
1. Pillow Whisper Spell
Purpose: To plant your energy into their dreams softly and sweetly.
Best Time: Night of the full moon, or a Friday (ruled by Venus).
You’ll need:
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A slip of paper with their name written on it
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A sprig of lavender (or a few drops of lavender oil)
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A small pink or white candle
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Your own pillow
What to do:
Light the candle and hold the paper with their name close to your chest. Picture their face. Think of a moment you shared, or a sweet thought you want them to feel. Place the lavender and paper under your pillow and whisper:
“Into your dreams, my name will flow,
A spark of longing I softly sow.
No harm, just thoughts, a pull, a trace—
You’ll wake and long to see my face.”
Blow out the candle. Sleep with the paper and lavender under your pillow for three nights.
2. Mirror Dream Call
Purpose: To reflect your image into their subconscious.
Best Time: Waxing moon or any night you feel intuitively strong.
You’ll need:
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A mirror
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A strand of your hair
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A piece of rose quartz (or any love crystal)
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A quiet space
What to do:
Sit before the mirror at night. Gaze softly into your own eyes. Hold the rose quartz and your strand of hair in your hand. Say:
“As I see me, so shall you.
In dreams tonight, this vision breaks through.
See me clear, feel me true—
In your sleep, you’ll come to view.”
Then place the rose quartz under your pillow, and hide the strand of hair inside your pillowcase or mattress. This spell works especially well when repeated three nights in a row.
3. Mugwort Dream Blend
Purpose: To send strong, vivid dream messages using herbs.
Best Time: Night before a new moon or a Thursday (for attraction).
You’ll need:
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Dried mugwort
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A small pouch or sachet
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A photo of you (printed or drawn, even symbolically)
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Optional: cinnamon or clove for added spark
What to do:
Place the mugwort, optional herbs, and your photo into the pouch. Hold it between your hands and speak:
“Dreams that drift and carry me,
To their heart, I send this key.
They’ll see my face, they’ll feel this glow—
And wake with feelings they didn’t know.”
If possible, place the pouch near where they sleep (under their mattress, left in their space discreetly, or sent in a gift). If that’s not possible, sleep with it under your pillow and visualize them receiving your dream message every night for a week.
4. Rosewater Dream Wash
Purpose: To bathe yourself in soft attraction energy so it travels to them in dreams.
Best Time: Friday night after a bath or shower.
You’ll need:
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Rosewater (store-bought or homemade)
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A soft cloth or cotton pad
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A candle (white, pink, or red)
What to do:
After your usual nighttime routine, light the candle and gently dab rosewater on your pulse points—wrists, neck, heart, and temples. As you do, speak softly:
“With every breath and every beat,
They’ll dream of me, so warm and sweet.
They’ll wake and know I’ve touched their soul—
A hidden fire they can’t control.”
Let yourself drift to sleep with that glow still on you. This spell is subtle, but it builds strength over time, especially if done regularly on Fridays.
5. The Dream Cord Spell
Purpose: To create a spiritual thread connecting your dream space to theirs.
Best Time: During a waxing moon or when you’ve had recent contact with them.
You’ll need:
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A red or pink string (or yarn/ribbon)
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Two small beads or charms
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A pen
What to do:
Hold the string and imagine a line of energy stretching from your heart to theirs. Thread one charm on each end of the string. Tie a small knot in the middle. As you do, say:
“Thread of thought, cord of light,
Link us gently every night.
In your dreams, let me be—
You’ll wake with thoughts of only me.”
Keep the string hidden somewhere safe, like in a drawer near your bed or in a keepsake box. You can meditate with it if you want to strengthen the connection again later.
6. The Dream Candle Spell
Purpose: To guide their dream path directly toward you.
Best Time: During a full moon or when you strongly feel their energy.
You’ll need:
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A white or pink candle
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A pin or toothpick
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A small photo or name of the person
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A pinch of sugar
What to do:
Carve your name and theirs into the candle using the pin. Sprinkle a pinch of sugar around the base of the candle for sweetness and attraction. As it burns, say:
“Through flame and thought, our dreams entwine,
They’ll see me clear beyond the line.
They’ll wake and yearn, they won’t know why—
Just that I linger in their sky.”
Let the candle burn all the way down (safely), or snuff it out and relight for three nights in a row. Keep the photo or name paper tucked into a journal, under your pillow, or with your personal altar.
A Little Dream Can Go a Long Way
Dream spells are like secret messages carried on moonlight. They’re soft, mysterious, and full of quiet power. These kinds of spells work best when you keep your intentions light and open. Don’t try to force a specific outcome—just send your energy, let it do its thing, and trust that the right connection will respond.
If they do dream of you, and if they wake up with that feeling they just need to talk to you—you’ll know the magic worked. And if not right away, don’t worry. Sometimes the universe takes its time lining up the perfect moment. Until then, keep believing in your magic… because it is real.
